How to Handle Problems

When I was a child I thought that when I got older I would be able to handle any problem I mean grown ups are suppose to know what to do right.? Well that wasn't the case in fact I did grow up & it seemed that my life didn't change much & I never knew what to do & how to handle my problems no matter which choice I  made it always seemed like the wrong one mainly because there were never any good results. But I soon realized that my home life affected all areas of my life I made poor choices when I was younger maybe if I had made smarter choices I would have had the independence that I now yearn for so yes I live with my family & no I don't get along with anyone im not exaggerating here I mean I just don't I cant say why exactly & believe me I have pondered that topic on a daily basis bcuz shit happens on a daily basis.  That being said I have great family I mean they are really good people but the point im bringing across here is that families have problems & I know a lot of young people might be able to relate to this problem not getting along with anyone. I don't have an aggressive nor expressive personality in fact through my writing im so carefree but in real life im quiet I get annoyed and angry easily my problem if I have trouble expressing myself that  aside im writing this for people who feel like killing themselves on a daily basis so from here on im not going to sugar coat anything. Nor do I wish to spill to much of my business cuz that's to much explainging & probably TMI.     


Why don't I get along with anyone: Firstly take a good long hard look at  urself whenever any problem arises observe how you react could u have acted better who is the real problem whos being the asshole do you lash out at people or do people tend to vent on you? This must be observed if ur the difficult one then yes ur the Fu*king problem you cant be a rage monkey all the time & expect people tolerate you. That being said here on now this is more directed to quiet personalities who always have problems getting along with people.


If you know ur not the problem & you try to meet people halfway then just remember this love urself  you might think if I didn't have all these upsetting redundant annoyances to deal with my life would be so much more peaceful. That maybe true whatever ur life maybe you cant wait to be happy theres  no right time hopefully youll be in a much better place in ur life eventually. You cant depend on anyone to be happy its better to be lonely n peaceful than to try to acquire stressful company people who you tolerate yes that may apply to family as well. As much as possible find paeace avoid arguments as much as u can I mean sometimes its needed but don't fight every little thing Love urself don't be hard on urself ur a human being ur special in ur own way you cant depend on getting along with people to fill that void of lonliness you have to be strong lika a warrior enjoy all the good in ur life always remember it could always be worst pour ur energies into something profitable do things you enjoy don't let ur life fall apart bcuz of people or mere words be strong rise above it above them master urself control how u handle things the way you feel  don't allow ur self to be hurt or affected by anyone or anything that might keep u from greatness bcuz u deserve the best there is only one you & if everyone is hard on you hating urslef is only going to sink urself into a deep shit hole and keep u from greatness. Pray yes Pray hard theres a miracle worer out in the universe hes called god don't believe in him then fine let satan rule ur life ur welcome.And remember nothing last forever not even the hell ur in so stay strong stay smart love urself love others and don't treat every situation like life and death sometimes it helps to reach out to others who knows what they maybe going through.


If this didn't help in any way then maybe youll find something soon that might help I didn't say how to solve I said how to deal big difference either way its good advice hopefully it will be of use to someone.  


Yes I know everything isn't grammatically correct lol but I cant help it im not big on the corrections thing my head might explode if I go thru tht process.